Tragedy or Karma?

I got some sad yet mixed feelings new yesterday. My Uncle Greg was in a car accident, but it was an extremely bad one.

First off no one on my Dad's side of the family didn't even bothered to tell me, I read about it in the newspaper!

Secondly it was very serious, but I can't find myself upset. I feel like a should be worried, but something in my heart isn't even caring. I wish I could feel any emotion besides confusion about the incident.

Rachel told me that she saw this car smash into a wall by another car, and the firefighters had to use the jaws of life to save a man in the car. Little did Rachel know that I knew the man. It stings to hear about a tragedy in your own family from someone outside of your family.

The karma half is because who Uncle Greg is a person. Frankly he and his wife scare me. His wife is Anita and she is this perky lady. But underneath the smile is a controlling verbally abusive women. They have four children, my cousins. One is around my age and she's not aloud to talk to me because Aunt Anita thinks I'll corrupt her mind. Yes Anita I'll corrupt her mind to make her think like in individual, not by your implanted thoughts! Emily is my cousin and a sweet normal teen, but you have to break down the years of walling her mother built. (On a side note I do in fact have two Aunt Anitas, both a crazy and are on different side of my family.)

Does everything happen for a reason? Is karma real?